independent adoption

found this website that talks about independent adoption. For some reason, this website depressed me. I will need to blog on it later. It seems as if you are advertising yourself so a birth mother will pick you for their baby. Is that the way it feels when you go through the private adoption process?

Quote from the site:

Beginning Your Search

How does a birthmother find the potential adoptive family? She will seek out a family that matches her idea of a good life for her child. She may want the family to be close by if she is intending to have contact, or she may seek a family anywhere in the country. You will need to describe what you see as the right fit for a potential situation for your family, after seeking legal counsel.